If asked, we all could list many benefits of having good friends. Cicero put it this way, “Friendship improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief.” Having a good friend is a dream parents have for their children. When kids with disabilities frequently have limited access to their peers due to the structure of special education within school systems, opportunities to develop friendships decrease. People with disabilities and learning differences (and their parents) tend to have a “dream” of a true friendship, when it shouldn’t be a dream at all – just a part of life.
Aristotle said, “wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.” So how can parents support and teach the art of friendship? How does one actually initiate a friendship? How does a friendship grow?
Friends Spend Time Together
Two of the biggest things that give friendship “a leg up” are sharing things in common and shared experiences. So let’s talk shared experiences. Here are 50+ ideas for activities to invite a friend to do.
56 Activity Ideas to do with Friends
Free Things to do with Friends
- check out books from the local library
- volunteer at an animal shelter
- DIY something from Pinterest
- scrap-booking
- visit the park
- go sightseeing
- do random acts of kindness
- play board games
- attend a free local event
- watch the sunset
- watch a movie
- exercise
- help at a soup kitchen
- put together a puzzle
Indoor Activities to do with Friends
- cook a new recipe
- have a spa day
- paint a canvas
- take a yoga class
- go to a concert
- go out to dinner
- bake cookies
- go to a karaoke night
- go shopping
- go to the gym
- visit local museums
- take dance lessons
- watch a reality TV show
- learn a new skill from YouTube
Outdoor Activities to do with Friends
- rent electric scooters
- go for a bike ride
- go roller-blading
- visit the beach
- go geogaching
- go jogging
- have a scavenger hunt
- go hiking
- visit the mountains
- go for a walk
- do yard-work together
- attend a festival
- visit a farmer’s market
- practice photography
Things to do with a Group of Friends
- go to an amusement park
- do a fun run together
- have a game night
- play basketball
- eat dinner at a new restaurant
- have a Pinterest craft party
- go bowling
- host a potluck dinner
- play mini-golf
- go to yard sales
- go to a comedy show
- go to a trampoline park
- play kickball
- have a picnic
Need help planning a get-together with a potential friend?
It can be difficult to juggle all the moving parts for planning a hang out with someone. From idea planning to suggestion conversation scripts, this worksheet walks through the process of planning a get-together and includes the 50+ activity ideas from this article in a handy bonus sheet.






